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Recovering From Discouragement

April 20, 2010 by Tim Sherfy

Discouragement can catch up with the best of us. No matter how positive our outlook or how determined our resolve, we all go through periods of discouragement. At times we don’t even know for certain what caused the feelings, while there will be other periods of life where Murphy’s Law comes into play and virtually everything that could go wrong does indeed go wrong. As long as we live in a fallen and broken world, discouragement is inevitable.

The key, of course, is how we recover. As followers of Jesus, discouragement has no long term place in our lives. If you find yourself sinking ever deeper into discouragement, (or its close cousin, depression), then it is your duty to find a way out as quickly as possible. We are called to victory in Christ, not despair. No matter what occurs in your life, what remains is the fact that Jesus loves you more than His own life and that His power is available for the asking. If we have devoted our lives to Him, we have already overcome anything this world can throw at us. This doesn’t mean life will be easy, happy, or free from discouragement, but it certainly should allow us to look at life with a different perspective.

On this blog, we generally focus on what our duties are as we strive to be true followers of Jesus. What we don’t spend a lot of time on are the rewards of being a follower. The reason for this is that even without the rewards and privileges associated with following Christ, we would follow Jesus anyway simply because of our love for Him. There are rewards however; we are now heirs to the Kingdom of God. Jesus freely gives all that He has to us; His love, His grace and His power. It’s easy to read words such as these and simply move on. Take a moment and really consider all that you have in Christ. It’s mind-blowing and almost beyond belief.

If focusing on the power of God is not enough to lift you from your discouragement, try taking inventory of all the blessings in your life. Nearly half the world lives on less than $2 dollars a day. What would you do if your income was $60 per month? How would your life change? Picture yourself having to live on that amount, then make a list of all the possessions, conveniences and luxuries you now have that would go away if you had to live on $2 per day. For extra credit, enter your income at the ‘Global Rich List’ web site to see where you rank. It’s a humbling realization. Pray over your inventory of blessings, thanking God for each and every one. It’s hard to be depressed or discouraged when you realize how amazingly blessed you are.

Finally, you must do something to improve your situation and your mindset. You must take action; you can either choose to remain motionless and allow life to continue to happen to you, or you can choose to move and throw yourself into life and force it to react to you. Refusing to move virtually guarantees you will stay in your discouragement. God gives you the strength and power to pull out of your state of mind, but you must actively utilize that strength. We were designed to live in an interactive communion with God. It takes two to dance this cosmic tango and we must do our part. Realize that we were created for purpose and we were designed for motion; so get moving! We are far too blessed to feel depressed and far too gifted to be discouraged. Change something in your life, do something different tomorrow from what you’ve done before. Sometimes simply participating in a worthy endeavor, especially one we’ve not attempted before is enough to shake us from our rotten mindset. Be kind to a stranger, buy lunch for a friend, or help a neighbor. Remember your blessings and the person you are in Christ. Don’t revel in your discouragement; instead, recover from it!

Filed Under: Daily Life Tagged With: gifts, humility, Love, poverty, purpose

How’s Your Reputation?

April 13, 2010 by Tim Sherfy

What is it about honesty that scares us so much? Why does admitting we are vulnerable strike such terror in even the strongest? Looking at the life of Christ, He was never afraid to put His true self on full display. He ate dinner with those who were despised by the religious leaders of His day; He willingly touched the outcasts of society; He refused to compromise His principles even when it was obviously the easier choice. Still, He wasn’t afraid to show anger by driving the thieves out of the temple; He wasn’t afraid to show His anguish by the tears He shed; and He wasn’t afraid to show His disappointment when men chose to go their own way rather than follow Him. In short, Jesus didn’t care what people thought of His methods or personality; He simply loved them in spite of their opinions. Through it all, He was honest with everyone about who He was, and about His mission.

Why do we find this such a difficult example to follow? We worry over much smaller things in life. We concern ourselves with what we wear, the style of our hair, the kind of car we drive and the places that we frequent. We’re all about building our reputation. Jesus wasn’t afraid of a bad reputation among the elite of His day. I think He reveled in it. After all, He came to seek and to serve the “least of these”, the poor and outcast of society. His reputation was just fine with these folks. There is a great lesson here. Be concerned with the reputation you have with those you serve. The opinions of others don’t matter at all, because they are not part of your mission. Yet our fear and insecurity about being honest with others comes from our fear of losing face (or reputation) with those very people who live outside of our calling. We are called to the poor, the widows, the orphans, the single moms, the homeless and the hungry. How is your reputation with these groups of people?

Living honestly and in total transparency is a necessity if we are to reach those who are down and out in our cities, those who have lost hope. These individuals have been abused by others and by society at large. They have been spit on and ignored. They are the strangers in the ditch and we are to be their “good Samaritan”; we are to be their neighbor. After being hurt by so many, they will see through any pretense. They don’t care where you come from or what you’ve done; they do, however, care if you are honest with them. Your reputation with them is only as good as your honesty. Throw out any self doubt and simply love somebody. Fulfill your mission by being the very hands and feet of God.

We give too much attention to our reputation among the well to do, the movers and the shakers, of our world. We want to be seen with the elite and recognized by the socially relevant. But this is the antithesis of our mission. We are called to serve the have-nots, the hungry and the hurting. It’s time for a little soul searching and some self analysis. To whom are you catering with your attitudes and concerns? Care nothing for what the high and proud of this world may think of you. Consider how those in need perceive you. Let your defenses down, give of yourself to someone in need. Instead of worrying about what others may think of you, concern yourself instead with the opinions of those whom you are called to serve. Do they see you as being honest? Do they see you as being real and sincere in your love for them? What’s your reputation?

Filed Under: Daily Life Tagged With: Fear, Love, poverty, Revolting Beauty, works

How Should We Then Live?

April 11, 2010 by Tim Sherfy

With apologies to the classic book of the same name by Francis Schaeffer, I have recently been struck by the phrase “How should we then live?” It’s one of those thoughts that is stuck in my head and refuses to leave. In what ways will I set myself apart from the rest of the world and be identified as a disciple of Christ? In what ways will I pursue justice for the weak, the homeless, the orphan and the widow? How should I then speak for them? How should I then stand up for those who cannot do so on their own?

In Proverbs 30:8, it says that we should desire “just enough”. We should not desire too much or we might become greedy and slothful. If we have too little, we may become jealous of others and perhaps even resort to dishonesty and theft to gain what belongs to someone else. Paul echoes these sentiments in his letter to the Philippians (chapter 4, verses 11 and 12). I have prayed this prayer in relation to my finances. I desire to have “just enough”; if I am blessed with anything more, then I know I must invest that money in the kingdom by giving it to the poor. If I am blessed to have “too little”, then it is my responsibility to learn to draw closer to God during this time and allow Him to grow my faith in Him. To receive the blessing of “just enough” is a great practice in humility and should not cause stress, but rather thanksgiving.

I believe that this same principal applies to all other areas of our life as well. Having “just enough” to eat leads to far greater health than overindulgence. To have “just enough” in terms of our clothing, the number of our possessions or the size of our homes is to live in humility before the Lord. A follower of Christ should never be attempting to keep up with the Jones’, but rather to find favor from Jesus! And so on a very personal level, I believe that is how we should live. We should live in a constant state of “just enough”. Be content with that which the Lord has blessed you. If ever you feel like you do not have enough, cry out to God to further fill you with His Spirit, because He is definitely enough. Let Jesus fill the emptiness in your life and you will be eternally full.

Having “just enough”, living humbly and in full faith before our God, will give us the attitude we need to spread His love to those around us. Having just enough food will cause us to sacrifice when we feed someone in need; having just enough “stuff” will enable us to be blessed by giving more than we are able. Ultimately, the way we should live is in service to others; it’s demonstrating the love of God to friend and stranger, acquaintance and neighbor. We are called to love, service and obedience. We have been given just enough strength to accomplish what God has created us to do.

How should we then live? We should live in humility and faith, seeking just enough to survive and serve, and being content with whatever we are provided. We should live always putting the needs of others before our own. We should live in a constant state of devotion and submission to God. We should live as people who pursue justice for all people, who feed the hungry and clothe those in need. We should live as obedient, faithful and loving servants of Jesus Christ. This, then, is how we should live.

Filed Under: Daily Life Tagged With: humility, Love, Philippians, Proverbs, purpose

Continuing the Mission of Christ

April 6, 2010 by Tim Sherfy

The mission of Christ did not end when Christ was crucified. It did not end when He rose from the grave. The mission did not end when He ascended into Heaven. In fact, these events were merely the culmination of the kick off! The mission of Jesus will be completed when His kingdom is on earth as it is in Heaven. And so it continues.

The modern evangelical church has lulled us into the belief that Christianity can be boiled down to attending a service on Sundays, putting the appropriate amount of money into the plate and telling someone about Jesus every now and then. The “super Christians” even live by an unusually high moral code and spend a seemingly inordinate amount of time in prayer. The more I study and learn, the more I ask myself, “What Bible are they reading anyway?” Jesus did not come to establish a glorified social club, a place we could go to make us feel better about ourselves or simply to be entertained. This was not, and is not, the mission of Jesus Christ. Do any of us really believe that Jesus endured what He did in order that we might pursue lives of comfort and affluence?

Look around you; is the world beginning to look like the Kingdom of God here on earth? Does it look more like the Kingdom today than it did 10 years ago? The answer to both questions is an obvious and resounding, “No!” So if the mission of Christ is for His kingdom to be at home on earth, why is it that we are continually moving ever further from that goal? The uncomfortable answer is that we have become satisfied with the comforts and conveniences of a world ruled by Satan. We are residing in the camp of the enemy, and we like it. What other conclusion may one draw?

As long as there are starving children, as long as there are those without a home, as long as selfishness and greed run rampant through our streets, the mission of Christ is not yet complete. We have chosen to be followers of Jesus. This is a volunteer role, one we have accepted by choice and are free to reject at any time. I pray that you hold fast to your decision and will choose to not just follow Him at a distance, but to run alongside of Jesus as you carry out His mission. If we would remain His followers, then His path is our path. His mission is our mission.

Wake from the slumber into which we’ve been lulled. Cast off the chains that keep us beholden to the comforts of society. Pray ferocious prayers that the will of God will indeed be done on earth as it is in Heaven. Take action whenever and however you can to see that the hungry are fed, the needy are clothed and the homeless are sheltered. Give all that you have so that others may in turn experience the freedom, the joy and the ecstasy of the love of Jesus. This is the mission to which we have all been called. This is the purpose and the meaning of life. On this day, at this moment, how will you respond?

Filed Under: Daily Life Tagged With: commitment, Love, mission, purpose

What does it mean to be a Christian?

April 1, 2010 by Tim Sherfy

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Since we talk so much about Christianity here, I thought it might be worthwhile for some to take a step back and define what being a Christian actually entails. Christianity in the traditional sense simply means one who is a follower of Christ. In modern evangelical terms (if you are new to Christianity, you’ll find we have A LOT of terms), a Christian is defined as someone who has prayed “the sinner’s prayer” and accepted Jesus as their Lord and Savior. My purpose is not to find fault with either definition, but rather to elaborate on them, with an emphasis on what Jesus commanded of His followers.

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Filed Under: Daily Life Tagged With: commitment, Discipleship, Faith, Love, works

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